How can I fix this conflict with my best friend and crush?

I’m a guy. I’m in love with another guy, Leon, who was my best friend, he knows that i like him, which didn’t bother him at all, but recently, he stopped talking to me. Leon told me that he was bi a few months ago. once he told me that, i was really relieved because I’ve had this crush on him since i was 15. but my joy did not last because he told me he was kinda with Luke, his boyfriend. i was happy for him, even though i cant have him. they have been together since December last year and recently, they broke up because Luke had to go abroad for his studies. a few weeks after they broke up, i invited Leon to d movies and i told him about my crush for him. we got closer than before but this doesn’t seem to last too. it all started about a week ago. that Saturday night, Leon was a bit mad when a friend of mine, Zan, added his ex-boyfriend, Luke, into his MSN list. he was mad at Zan for doing so, n he assumed dat i did the same thing too. but the truth is, i never added Luke into my list. so we started this fight, he told me that I’m too predictable, saying that I’m double-faced ( my other friends does not know that i might be bi/gay, only Leon knows ). right now, he seems to bombard me with false accusations, saying that i told Zan about Luke. i tried talking to him but he wont listen. i tried calling him but he wont answer the phone. in school, I think he told my other friends about this problems and i think they know I’m bi/gay. but I’ll try to deny it, for s long as i could, because, i am not Leon. Leon is accepted by everyone, he’s funny, cute, friendly but can b a little bit sarcastic sometimes. I have dark past.

help me, i don’t know what to tell Leon..i want him to know the truth! -thelostlove-

Answer #1

i can only meet him face to face when we are alone, my other friends do not know that i’m bi, n i dont want them to find out about it now. he usually hangs out with my group of friends and he doesnt leave them. so how can i get to be alone with him?

Answer #2

Go see him direct and make him listen, tell him you need him to know the truth and for the sake of your friendship and your past together you need him to know exactly what happened, and then he can judge whether to ignore you or not, but go see him becos then he cant avoid you.

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