I love him but cant have his kids :S

im deeply in love with this older guy and I mean way older but he says he feels the same and im nearly 17 and I recently found out I cant have kids but his got to kids from his previous marriage will he leave me if I say I cant have kids myself ? do I tell him? help?

Answer #1

before you tell him you cant have kids it might be better to actually dicuss kids first talk about were you are in your relationship now and if he wanted kids with you in the future or not then once youve dicussed what he wants to do, tell him that your unable to have children of your own for whatever reason though keep in mind that there might still be another way for you to have a child

Answer #2

will he leave me if I say I cant have kids myself ?

  1. …why the HELL would he leave you for that? Do you think he wants MORE kids? Have you talked to him about it?

  2. …you said he’s WAY older, and you’re 16 which makes you a minor. So its safe to assume this relationship is illegal, right?

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