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ok I've been talkin to this girl for about 3 or 4 months. well were not going out but we say I love you to each other. and I do love her and im pretty sure she loves me. the only problem is we fight about everynight over stupid stuff. shes the type of girl who just w/e next subject. well im trying to figure out a way to avoid the fighting?
You are confusing love with like/lust/and infatuation. You have only been talking to her for 3 or 4 months and are not even dating her yet, that is way to soon to be throwing around the "L" word.
You are already fighting and not even in a relationship - that is a HUGE red flag. In normal relationships, the beginning is known as the "honeymoon" stage. Everything seems perfect and great. You are not experiencing that, and it should be a huge red flag to move and not pursue a relationship with this girl.
Call me a pesimist (id rather call my self a realist) but if you havnt even met her im sorry you dont love her!
I think "I love you" is totally over used and by saying you can break peoples hearts if you dont mean it.
I think youre just infactuated with her, its not love so why not just be friends, it seems you argue way too much anyway x
try telling her how you feel and you really want to be wit her 4 a long time but fighting does not get it
