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I'm 13 and I really like this guy.. I'm not sure but I think he likes me too because he looks at me a lot.. but the problem is that he is my friend's ex boyfriend =( She says that she is over him but I don't know if she really is I feel so guilty just for liking him, I don't talk a lot with him but I can't stop thinking about him!! I can't tell my friend that I like him and I don't even know if the guy likes me too so I don't know what to do!! Please help me !!
What do you think I should do ??
Does your friend still talk about this guy a lot? If so, then I don't care what she says, she's NOT over the relationship. You also didn't say who did the dumping in that relationship, that makes a difference as how to proceed. If she dumped him, then I say he's fair game as long as you go ahead and talk to your friend first. If you can't face her, then you'll lose her friendship either way unless you can figure out a way to keep this guy a total secret and that just never works out. Somehow that information will get back to her. If he dumped her, I don't think I'd get involved with him at all. I think it would just be to risky to your friendship. Don't feel guilty though. You and your friend have a lot in common or else you wouldn't be friends. It's only natural that your taste in men are the same. But be honest with her or you will be really hurting her. Good luck!
Does your friend still talk about this guy a lot? If so, then I don't care what she says, she's NOT over the relationship. You also didn't say who did the dumping in that relationship, that makes a difference as how to proceed. If she dumped him, then I say he's fair game as long as you go ahead and talk to your friend first. If you can't face her, then you'll lose her friendship either way unless you can figure out a way to keep this guy a total secret and that just never works out. Somehow that information will get back to her. If he dumped her, I don't think I'd get involved with him at all. I think it would just be to risky to your friendship. Don't feel guilty though. You and your friend have a lot in common or else you wouldn't be friends. It's only natural that your taste in men are the same. But be honest with her or you will be really hurting her. Good luck!
im 13 too and that happened to me. i think you should ask your friend about him, and ask her if she still likes him you don't have to say anything about you liking him. if she doesn't then get friendly with him like sit next to him in class or something. but if she still likes him then just find some1 else cause your friendship will last longer then your relationship would probably last.
