I like a guy who has a girlfriend

Alright, so I’m a sophomore in high school, and he’s a senior and so is his girlfriend. They’ve been together for 2 years. I KNOW I should just leave it alone, cause he’s taken, and he’s graduating this year, but I still can’t help liking him…a lot. We don’t see each other too much in school, and we obviously don’t have any classes together. I met him cause we were both on the track team, and we became buddies. Winter track season ended, and spring track is starting in a few weeks, and we’re both on it.

I wouldn’t do anything to wreck a relationship, but I still want to get to know him better, outside of school and stuff, so when he comes back to visit from college, we can still hang out.

What do you think?

Answer #1

you can try whatever you want, but if he’s been dating a girl for two years thats a pretty close bond. And I would doubt that he would have time or the ability to see you outside of school when he knows that would get him in trouble.

Answer #2

well he’s been with his girlfriend for 2 years and sounds like he’s commited to her, so I guess there is no way you can make him your boyfriend.

wrecking a relationship is a bad move, people around you may start to dislike you, which would cause you a lot of grief and isn’t really worth it.

a lot of people go through this, you are young and I’m sure there are many single boys out there. we live in a huge world and just because you like this one person doesn’t mean you can’t start liking someone else.

I suggest you forget him and find someone else and closer to your own age.

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