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I know what making out is and all...but I can't really say I know how to makeout...its confusing...my boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 1/2 months, but we've never made out..I'm okay with that...we're both really shy...and have never done anything before...I really think I love him and I know that I want him to be the first guy I make out with...and im not sure if I shuld make the first move or wait for him..and either way...what do I do with my hands while we're making out? and how will I know if he liked it? I just have a bunch of questions! I need help!!
ok this is generally what I find makes a good kiss: obviously be romantic. kiss him as in a peck, then kiss him but this time take his lip slightly in between your lips and pull gently backwards letting his lip go just away from his mouth then do this but before you pull away stick your tongue into his mouth(I know this doesn't sound all that nice but it's kinda hard to explain in a nice way lol) and gently swirl it around his mouth being carefuly not to go to deep, withdraw your tongue and pull away like when you didnt do tongues then just do a mixture of all three of these kisses and take it from there. guys often like it also if you gently nibble their lip(usually bottom) but dont worry too much about this as you dont want to do it wrong and hurt the guy! you could also try gently nibbling his ear but again GENTLY! or you could just kiss or gently play with his ear. just experiment and find out what works best for you! remember to just relax and dont think about it too much or else you wont enjoy it! also a good thing to remember is to pull away every now and then and just give him a peck. this gives you a chance to swallow extra saliva and also teases him a bit.
your hands: put your hands around his neck and gently ruffle his hair and occasionaly gently play with his ear.
hoped this helped! good luck! x
well first off, don't joke around about it too much. hahah, about 2 weeks ago [we like to joke around] he was trying to kiss me and on purpose I'd joke and pull my head away. well he got tired of it and didn't want to do anything that night. hah its all good now but don't do that. ok well when you go in you can open your mouth to start or kiss him 2 or 3 times repeatedly and then open your mouth. I don't know about you but I know a handful of girls, as of myself, that hate tongue and think its gross. so if you don't like tongue, tell him. it did no harm for me telling my boyfriend I didn't like tongue. but if you do then just gently put it in his mouth and keep opening and closing your mouth. my friend made fun of me and my boyfriend before because we would go slow and then fast then slow then fast. so while making out just go at a normal pace and don't go to fast. secondly, don't make out while laying sideways in a parking lot full of leaves. anyways, good luck :D
when I make out (get off) with my boyfriend he usually puts his hands on my waist & I put mine around his neck... then I just kiss him slowly then pull back. then I kiss him again still slowly, but this time I dont pull away. then I just keep kissing him & slip in a bit of tongue here and there ;p sometimes we mess about like he bites my nose gently or he sticks his tongue out & I bite it gently :L If your at home you can lay down and pull him on top of you & then get off. its romantic because like you're making eye contact... & just stay relaxed if he starts toucching.. but let him no if you're not comfortable. I was scared my first time but it comes naturally really :)
when my first boyfriend and I made out for I was really nervous because it was my first time and he had done it pleanty of times. but I told him it was my first time. there really is not rule to it just relax and go with the flow. I was all worried because I had no clue what I was doing. but later that night he called me and told me that he did not beliave that that was my first time. and your hands either put them on his lower back and gently tikle it like you do to babys. or put them around his next genly or on the back of his head and play with his hair. my ex LOVED when I did that.
If you have to worry about everything, you are NOT ready to take that next step. Two people who are in love, who are comfortable with each other, and trust each other, never have doubts about whats going to happen next. It comes naturally, and easily without questions, and not wondering what the other person is thinking. Youll know when something is right, because it will feel right. Dont ever feel the need to put pressure on a relationship, when things happen, it will happen without any doubts, or questions!
well I thinkk you shuldd qivee him hints that you wanna makeeout. so like when you qo 2 a moviee staree in his eyess and if he stares at urs leann in and if he leans in 2 den yu noe thts your perfectt moment for you quys 2 start kissinq. hoopee it helpz!
well my first time was when I was 10 with my ex-boyfriend. I didnt know what to do but I did it! and he said I was the best ever!!! my hands were around his neck and his hands were on my waist...and it was good my first time :D
It is not bad if the girl is the initiating. Put your arms around his neck and kiss him. Slowly. And you two will feel how to continue. If you need further advice send me a funmail.
have you ever watched movies lmao obvv well dont just let your hands hang there touch the side of his face.
it will just come naturally hun. dont stress about it
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