Is it bad that I just got dumped and I already like another guy?

Ok I i went out with this guy for about a month and a week. I really did like him. But last friday he dumped me at a football game an we havent really spoken since- because he was a bit of a jerk about it. One of the guys in our group that goes to a different school is REALLY sweet and i really liek him- i even liked him before and during the time my ex- boyfriend and i went out. I KNOW he likes me because he sends little hints and also he always kisses me on the cheek after he hugs me. Am i wrong to say he likes me? I would go out with him and he told all my friends that he is going to ask me- i also think that it is kind of insensitive to ask me out after i JUST got broken up with. He knows i as VERY upset about it- but he is really just like me- ya no "my type" that lingo. I just wonder- is it too soon or am i on the rebound. Although I am totally over the other guy- i just think i should wait a respectable amount of time not to look like a whore or anything- just wondering Thanks

Answer #1

IT’S NOT BAD!!!!!!!!!! Your moving on that’s what your supposed to do. Go out with him, ask him for his #, DO SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer #2

O>k here's what i think. If this guy really likes you and you like him back. Go out with him. He's not being inconsiderate of you either. If you've flirted with him or told anyone that you like him and he found out, then maybe he knows you like him and thinks that you want to go out with him. Maybe he's just tryin to help you get over your ex more. He might feel that by asking you out it might help you get over this other guy. I think that he sounds sweet. Don't be so self-centered and go out with the guy.

                                        -Caitlin
Answer #3

Sometimes its difficult to see whetheryou're on rebound or not. What looks like the good thing here is that you liked this new guy before you were with your ex - so you know that you haven't just suddenly jumped onto someone else :) because you don't want to jump into anything too soon to me sounds like you're seriously thinking about this situation. It sounds like you're not on rebound :) and it's up to you how long you want to be single before getting with someone new - only you will know when you are ready. When yu know you're ready, just let things happen naturally between you and the new guy :) hope everything works out ok for you, best of luck

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