Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Love & Relationships Questions

I hate the guy my best friend's with...

I HATE the guy my best friend is with…like I just do NOT like him…but I don’t want to tell her because I don’t want to hurt her feelings becasue she really loves him…but he’s a JERK to her…he lives in a different town and ONLY calls her on saturdays because he claims he’s “too busy” to talk to her any other day…should I hold my tongue or tell her he’s a jerk?

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

She knows more about his behavior than you do, so if she doesn’t think he’s a jerk, then there’s no reason you should tell her.

She experiences his behavior and chooses to be with him anyway.

Answer #2

Well my best friend HATES my boyfriend and it really just pisses me off when she complains 2 me about him. So honestly no I dont think you should say anything, you should keep quiet about it cus either your just gonna make her mad at u, or your gonna make her all afraid that her bfs cheating or something when you dont know that he is. Just keep quiet about it 4 awhile, unless or until you fine actual proof about something about her boyfriend that you know she needs to know about.

Answer #3

Tell her. Shes your bestfriend & you should be able to have this communication with her. Explain to her that he seems fishy & that she should be respected more & he should ALWAYS have time for her.

Goodluck :)

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Best Mail Order Brides

Dating Services, Matchmaking Services, Relationship Advice

Advisor

Best Bride

Mail Order Bride Services, Marriage Agencies, Dating Services

Advisor

World Best Astro

Astrology services, Domain sales, Professional services

Advisor

Asianbrides

Mail Order Brides, Asian Dating, Relationships

Advisor

The Lifestylist Sydney

Life Coaching, Personal Development, Wellness