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How to get my Mom to kick her friend out?

Ok so this is a hard question to answer so good luck to any that can…my mum has this boyfriend (hes more of a border) who is a real * sometimes he insults me,my sister and mum, buts into our convosations and has to know everything…hes also a real creep, but my mum wont kick him out I ask her if she loves him and she says no, so why is he still here I ask she says she needs and adult friends/meaning someone to talk to thats her age…come on why is she doing this to me I hate this guy hes mean but she can see straight to kick him out…his family is mixed up with illegal stuff and I dont want to have anything to do with him…my mum wont see reason so what should I do…

He never seems to be ever leaving its been like 4 years or so…im going crazy literally , its affecting everything im mentally just unstable 24/7 cause I want to do serious damge to him…

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Answer #1

Can you pack your things and live with an uncle or sibling for some time? I don’t know how old you are, but if this guy is dangerous I think you’re absolutely right not to get involved with him in anyway. My real dad was suposedly in the Italian Mafia (but I’m not sure) he was very violent and my mom had to move to another state to get rid of him and we still recieved calls from him and his familly for about 10 years after that…I suggest you move out as soon as you can, as for your mom, shes an adult I don’t think you can help her if she doesnt want to be helped.

Well good luck with that! ;)

Answer #2

Armm hard question the best things 2 do is try 2 aviod the person I know that sound stupid because cm on living on sm house fort 4 years now!! you can just be wise and don’t let dis dude boss you around you no who your no1 can change…Only god can try 2 think of a plan 2 get the dude out you tried asking ure mum she won’t kick him out soo so you get him out try 2 founf out what he scard of something , anything you may think what the f*ck girl on about but it does work just try ure best

well good luck wid that be postive be happy

Answer #3

I guess you already tried to reason with Mom.. I think as long as you live under Moms’ roof it may be wise if you were to try not being around this person. I know it’s hard to avoid someone you’re living with, but I mean if the guy has been around for like 4 years now, I don’t know what else to tell you. Maybe if you come to an acceptance and learn to avoid the guy, this too shall pass. good luck

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