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I know im young at 15, and im in love with this really nice girl, she loves me back and we both think this is the real deal, we have talked about things before and we know we wanna wait longer before we go to far, we dont wanna mess this up, we have talked about what we want in the future and things like that, we both really wanna last as long as we can.. but as the months go on I feel like I might love her more then she loves me, when shes around my friends she ignores me and I know she has feelings for one of my friends, and thinks a few others are cute.. is she trying to use me to get to them? or will she grow out of this and go back to her friends soon.. in the last few days she wont say "I love you too" when I say I love you to her, but when she has to go she says and and expects me to say it back, I do say it back, but I feel like she thinks she has me so tight that I wont leave her if she gets to involved with my friends.. at first I had no problem with this, but now its everyday after school she will hang out with 6 or 7 of my guy friends for hours after school.. and I know for a fact that she told one of them she has feelings for him.. he said "oh.. im sorry?" and she got so upset.. she wouldnt talk to me and told me not to say I loved her.. what do I do to fix this without hurting us as a couple, or having it seem like im trying to be "controlling" or demanding..
you should defenatly take a little more controll... when she ignores you around her friends then talk to her tell her how you feel, tell her everything you had just typed here, if she takes it offensive give her some time alone and go on with your life then when she wants to be mature about the relationship then you can go back to normal.
trust me it works..
or maybe you should become a little more intament with her maybe thats her issue.?
She sounds really confused to me. Let her make her decisions about who she wants to be with. If she does have feelings for a friend of yours and wants to try to be with him, then that is what she is going to do and you really can't stop her and it's not your fault. Give her some space. Maybe she'll realize you're the one she wants to be with and straighten her act up. If she doesn't, she doesn't deserve you.
I know you care for her, but coming from a girls opinion I think you should dump her. It might make her realize she cares about you and she will act different. There is no point in being with someone who treats you like crap. You will find a better girl trust me!
Im sorry to face it to you but she is not interested on you no more you should let her go. If she is trying to get at one of your friends that is not kool and she has no respect find another girl.
