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My husband is deployed overseas and I just asked him if it was okay for a friend of mine to stay with me for a couple of day to hang out.. While my friends is a guy and had a big crush on me in high school and told my husband once that he loved me.. I have been friends with him forever so I did not see a problem with letting him stay at my apartment for a couple of days.. Well when I asked my husband if it was okay with him he told me that he did not trust him alone with me... I dont see why but I listened to what he had to say... After trying to tell him that I dont think my friend would try anything and him telling me that he feels worthless because he is there and if something happened to me he would not be here to protect me like a husband should.. Well finally he said if you want him there then fine with me..

My problem is if my friends does come and stay I feel like I am letting my husband down since he asked me not to let him come.. But if I tell my friend that my husband said that he could not come I would feel like I dont trust him either.. I dont know what to do... Someone please help me ...