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my dad is so mean I walked in to eat lunch and he started yelling and telling me iam lazy and I just asked him if he needed me to do any thing and like a week ago I burnt my finger on a hair straightener and he called me a retard. I told my mom and he yelled at me for telling my mom.hes not as mean to me but my mom is never home.he only cleans the house 1 time a month then he sits back and tels us were lazy I am fed up one day hes going to say something and I am going to f***ing flip:•(
Ahhh memories of my childhood...Look I dont know how old you are and how long you have to live in that household. But from someone who has been there done that, I would like to say that you should first of all try to tell him how you feel about how he is treating you, if that shows no results , I would say bide your time girl... concentrate on school and what you want for your future. Also realize, that he is human and we are all have our issues. We all say things that we regret, but you have to let him know how much what he says affects you. If he couldnt care less, then like I said, bide your time, and get out when you can. Just realize its not you its him. But when I say get out I'm not saying getting into a worse situation, which is something I did. From what you say he is verbally abusive not physical, believe me , I know that verbal feels worse. But Physical can kill you.Just be strong, realize it's his problem not yours , try to connect with your mom on whats going on, and if all else fails, focus on your future. Cause you will be so much more without him , down your back. And it will feel soo good to prove yourself as the awesome chick you are, whether he gives a sh#, I've learned that having a happy life is the best revenge and dammnit girl I have a lot to be angry for.So good luck!!!
I know what you mean...it seems like I have to do all the house work in the house where I am at and there are 6 freakin people that do nutting nothing at all! you just kinda have to live with it cause its his house... kinda just until you move out or you can have a talk with him telling him how you feel and how you do ... clean and do stuff maybe write down what you do, do stuff and show him. lazy people just dont notice I guess.
All of us have our good traits and our bad traits - nobody perfect - do not allow yourself to totally judge the other side without checking the mirror also - but most importantly, dont allow Hate to creep into your life and take over - you will not have each other forever - only Dad you'll ever have - work for positive change, you'll be glad you did...Take care !!
wow. are you sure we dont have the same father? well mines a step-dad but he acts the same freeking way! seriously I do everything for my parents while they sit on their asses. its so freeking annoying. I just about told my step-dad to croak already. (croak meaning die... lmfao)
I know what you mean. I'm about to knock the f**k out of my step dad. his problem is he just drags on sh!t that should of already been over with. all he does is sit on his lazy @$$ and drink all day. tell your mom, she can probably change his crappy attitude.
haha. step-dads suck... so much for the evil step-mother thing right? fairy tales have it ALL wrong. =] if you ever want to talk about anything just funmail me. im usually always here.
(p.s. im not a lesbian either and I didnt think you were. lol. )
I dont really think you shud be bad mouthing your family to the world its not nice . if your family is having problems you should sort it out through your family only. its not nice talking bad about the hand that cares for you. xxxhunixxx
hey brokenwing he is my step dad I lost my password so I made a new one thax ttly no what you mean I cant belive you get me so well (ps. iam not a lesbian) thanx again=•)
