I dont fit in at school HELP!?

okay this is kinda long so dont freak. OKay I have been at the same school since kindergarten and I had friends untill 5th grade everyone hates me I really mean everyone even people I dont know I have on friend her nick name is hersheys but I really love her (like a sister) and I dont understand why I think its just my personaily me and hersheys are perfect togther..im always getting laughed at..im fat… I have one friend…im goth.. what makes it worse is that im dislexic ..is that how you spell it? Rofl… but when I read aloud its hard and I get laughed at im a great reader when im not reading to people only when I read to other people dont get me wrong I love hersheys but I wish it was eaiser to make friend (im in 8th grade)

Answer #1

I’m APPARENTLY a missfit too, I’m in college and I still get called horrid things, people tripping me up persosefully when I’m where platforms, somone pushed me down the stairs while I was wearting platforms boots, its a tough world, I’ve had this problem all my life, I used to get beat up when I was 11 because I was mentaly different but hey, makes you a strong person

there just ignorant dont listen to them when I was in year 8 (in england that means I was 12) I had NO friends at all I was chubby, gothic, not very pretty, always got bullied, but now I’m in college, im still gothic, but I lost all my baby fat so I’m slim people my age respect me, everyone is nice to me unless I choose otherwise people think I’m a beautiful strong wise girl, its to do with maturity, the younger students are the ones who still say things like the years below me, thats because there parents havnt brought them up write

for now just me a nice good person, and what I did that helped me make friend with a good book, or a pen and peice of paper

good luck

Answer #2

Be more outgoing. 99% of how people portray you is dependent upon how you portray yourself. This isnt the end of the world. The main thing is you need to get over your fear of being “unpopular.” Every single person that is popular in middle school or high school does not think about being popular, guaranteed. If you obsess over it it will never happen. Try to step back from the picture and realize that these kids that you are embarrassed around arent $hit. Youll look back in 6 years and say wow why did I care what they thought. That is how you need to start thinking now. Talk to more people…just talk… strike up friendly conversation during class or in the lunch line or during PE. Be LOUD make your presence known. Whats the worst thing that could happen…the little 13 year old gits think your annoying or weird…thats not the end of the world trust me. If you go to talk to somebody and they say something mean like “why are you talking to me” or “ok loser”… say “ok B*h then Fk you” or “alright loser.” As soon as you stop thinking about being popular and just start being yourself youll end up with a lot more friend…try running for a class office or doing the morning announcements …just get yourself out there the more people that know your face the better… And to be honest honey trying to loose some weight and where “prepier” or more upbeat clothes wouldnt hurt your cause either.

Answer #3

OK ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT YEAH SCHOOL CAN BE CRUEL AND IT SEEMS LIKE A BIG THING NOW BUT SPEAKING FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE EVERYBODY AT SCHOOL THINKS THAT BE IN CLICKS AND TRYING TO BE POPULAR IS ALL THAT MATTERS BUT ITS NOT ONCE YOU GET OUT OF SCHOOL THING THAT SEEMED SO BIG IN SCHOOL YALL WILL RELIZE HAT IT WAS PRETTY MUCH FOR NOTHING AND IF YOU WANT MORE FRIENDS THEN ALL I CAN SAY IS JUST BE YOURSELF DONT PUT A LABEL ON YOURSELF BECAUSE IF YOU DO THEN THAT GIVES EVERYBODY ELSE THE OPPERTUNITY TO TRY AND BRING YOU DOWN THEY CAN ONLY DO IT IF YOU LET THEM THINK OF IT THIS WAY IF THEY DONT LIKE YOU THEN OH WELL THEY ARE MISSING OUT O A GOOD PERSON AND THATS THEIR PROBLEM NOT YOURS AND IF YOU HAVE TROUBLE READING IN FRONT OF THE CLASS THEN ASK YOUR PARENTS IF YOU CAN GET A TUTOR THA MIGHT HELP YOU IMPROVE YOUR READING SKILLS. IF YOU NEED ANY MORE ADVISE FEEL FREE TO ASK I HOPE THIS HELPED YOU OUT A LITTLE

Answer #4

WOWWW girl I take the fat thing back! I just saw your pictures and you definitely are not fat. Your a realllyyy pretty girl and you should have no problem fitting in as long as you just put yourself out there more and if people shoot you down you shoudnt give a $hit because you are hot!…atleast id think so if I was 6yrs younger lol ; )

Answer #5

people will always try to make fun other people just to cover how insecure they really are I normally just ignore them or make fun of them (if you look hard enough you find the dirt and you can use it against them) and you shouldn’t have to change who you are just to please them btw you are not fat you look pretty nice in the picture

Answer #6

Be yourself, f*ck what others have to say. Don’t fall under the stereotypes and label yourself. -.-

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