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I am afraid of committment

Ok, most people think that this is just a good breakup phrase, but for me this is so real… I start talking to guys and when they show that they are interested in taking it further I get scared I guess and bac off.. I go through like 5 guys a yr.. (just talking) and it never goes any further than that because of ME! the last guy I was talking to I told him my problem, he just laughed and told me that I was crazy, then wouldnt you know a wk later we were talking about dating, and I just called it quits… I dont know what my problem is… it just started when I got in highskool I dont know what that would have to do with any thing, but any ways anyone got any help for me because believe me I NEED IT!

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Answer #1

I refer you back to your question “how not to be single anymore”: “the best relationships come along when you are not looking for them. relax. make some new friends. if something more comes out of those friendships-bonus! remember, two years out of six teen is huge, but you JUST started dating a few years ago, and you will (hopefully) continue being romantic until you are more worried about remembering to remove your teeth at night. don’t rush… it’ll happen. I promise.”

Answer #2

you just need to let your gaurd down, I mean whats there to be scared of? your in high school, if you have a bad relationship now, its no big deal. there is plenty of time, you have to learn to take a chance sometimes, live on the edge, what happens, happens. but dont be in a relationship that your forcing just to help your problem, just go have fun, and be yourself and ull soon forget your problem

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