Is it possible that my hymen has not broken, even though i've masturbated, i have used tampons, and i've been fingered? I haven't had sex yet, but i plant to very soon, and i really want to brake my hymen before so i can actually enjoy it...but i don't know if it is possible that it hasn't broken, even though i've been doing all these things.
Yes, the hymen is flexible. You may have only stretched it or just partially torn it. And having a hymen... isn't enjoyable. It can be a bit painful until it erodes away.
You'll enjoy the actual intercourse no matter what.