My husband repeatedly tells me that anytime a woman talks to another man other than her husband or vice versa thats its because he/she want to have sex with them. Yet all the time he talks on phone or on computer to another woman, whom I have both asked them to stop. anyway my question is this: how should I accept this answer when if I even speak to another man, he accuses me of having an affair?
You're husband sounds like a hypocritic asshole. [very sorry] My friend had a boyfriend like that, she wasnt allowed to talk to ANY guys, and not even some of her girlfriends because they were bisexual. Yet he would cheat on her and be an asshole to her. I would say have a serious talk with your man, otherwise you need a new man who TRUSTS and respects you, and not one who is constantly worried about your fidelity.
Ask him if he is having an affair and you would like to knw if he has a guilty conscience. Ask him, if he is talking to other women, shouldn't you also have that same privelege talking to the opposite sex.
Fink out on him till you can do it. That is not a life what you will have with him in this atmosphere.
