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Take your time, definitely.. stay relaxed and go slow.. that will help with the discomfort. Every girl is different, and everyone handles pain better or worse than others. For me, it didn't hurt at all, just very.. uncomfortable for the first few minutes.. But relax, lubricate and go slow. :)
the saying 'to pop your cherry' just means to lose your virginity. your 'cherry' is actually only a thing layer of skin which can be rip whilst having sex for the first time or by doing exercise or stretches. theres not much pain at all. and you may not even no you've done it.
ALWAYS go slow the first time, every time i had the joy of bein the "first" its always better to go slow, and maybe once u get into it u can go a little fast..be sure she is wet enough always....
It dosent really hurt well atleast not for me. Take things slow cause it will hurt if you take it way too fast.
what the heck?!
ok..