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I checked my boyfriend's a social site account last night. I went through his messages and found out that he has been sharing porn video links with one of the girls on his friends list. I didn't know who the girl is, and it seems that she has not been replying to my boyfriend's messages anyway. But my boyfriend keeps sending her the porn links. I do not know what to think about this. How would you react to this situation? I havent told my boyfriend yet about what I found out because I don't know how to say this to him.
first, I would ask him if he knows the girl and if he is like no I dont know who she is, then hes caught. if he says he talks to her, then ask what about they talk about. I would then put it off telling him you know for a couple days and then be like, so are you going to tell me or what? and then he might fess up or he will act confused so you just have to call him out on it. if he gets angry that you went through his messages then dont feel guilty he is just trying to turn the situation around and make you in the wrong. when you are talking to him about it stay calm dont yell or he wont want to share anything with you because he will feel threatened. hope this helps:)
