I have only had sex with one guy for about five months now. We're always changing postitons. And he wants me to be on top. But everytime I get on and try to ride him, it sucks. I even know that. Everyone say's, sit on him and ride it. Welll..How do you ride it?!?!!? At first I was just moving my hips. Then later on.. I started going up and down. Which worked better.. but still sucked. I've rode him the other way. Sitting on it backwards. Which was better. But how the hell can I be good on top? Any suggestions?
Being on top is a tricky position, but there's no way to get better at it unless you practice. It sounds crazy, but if you ever get private time in your bedroom, try rolling a pillow and sitting on top of it like you would if you were on your boyfriend.
Roll your hips back and forth like you would if you were trying to balance on a mechanical bull. Next time you try the position with your boyfriend, grab his hands and have him support you for balance.
The more balance you have, the easier it will be for you to keep a steady rhythm when you're going back and forth. If you want to try to bounce up and down, its important for your boyfriend to help you out with the bouncing. Sex is all about being connected and having good communication.
While you're on top, ask him if he likes what you're doing. If he says yes, than you're doing great. If not, then ask him what he wants you to do. Stay flirty and keep the attention on him, he'll love what you're doing whether you think you're doing a good job or not. Hope this helps :-)
Welll, when I first did it, I seriously sucked lol. Like his penis was literally slipping out like every second so it was kind of frustrating. But then I figured what I was doing wrong. I wasn't going alll the way down. So here's how it is, make sure his penis is alll the way in you or else it'll be a bit painful & unpleasurable! When its all the way in have him put his hands on your hips & start bouncing up and down. Or you can't just slide up and down like toward his stomach and then back. After his penis gets well positioned in there you can't start moving faster and it always helps if he's pushing his penis inside you while you're riding him. So yeah, but those aren't the only movements you could make. There's a few more so you might wanna look into those lol. PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT. :)
well my fist time riding was kinda painfull. it was just a lil while ago really. but any way he asked me if I wanted to get on top and I said yes so when I did it was painful because it was only my second time havein sex but I loved the pain but when I got on top I took in as much of his dick as I could (he's0 10inches!lol and I was a virgin lol ouch!) and I just symply leaned twards him holdin his hands and grinded lol I didnt do it right at first so he helped me out by showin me how to grind it then after a whill he started bouncing me up and down untill I was doin it myself. onm I was amasing but painful. but just ask him to help you out until you get it... it will be so fun!
girl I suggest you get on in a comfortable position, the more comfortable you are the easier it is for you to do it right and try not to think about him. whatever feels good to you feels great to him when you get on it kinda lay in a 90 degree angel and move back and forth play with his ear and whiser sexy things in his ear then layup sitting verticle on him and then wine your hips in a circluar motion then change it up by moving your hips in a circle kinda motion and then back and forth and up and down start off slow get comfy then go for the kill if he does not like it then try something new or ask him to teach you how he likes it
dont just get on and start bouncing guys need time to warm up to. take it slow and gradually get faster when he says hes getting close or makes any signs hes about to cum go as fast as you can till you know hes done. while your ontop play with your boobs hair look him in the eyes provocativley men want to feel like you into it so act up sexy
what I like to do with my boyfriend is start off slowly grinding my hips then I like to spin around on his dick and bounce up and down while holding his ankles...OMG it feels great and my man loves it...if you can take the pain girl try it
Well I like to start off slow and sexy by just slowly grindn on his dick. then speed it up a little and let your tities bounce. lean back with your hands on his knees so he can have view of your clit
Sit how ever is comfortable and move in all directions, circles, up and down, side to side, and any combo you can think of. It can be kinda fun...
start off slowly then speed it up. lean back and put your hands on his knees so he has view of your clit..he will love it
Practice on him, or other objects
