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How to know my daughter's boyfriend?

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Well, I know this may seem crazy. But I personally wanted to ask this question. Well I am a father and I have a daughter.[stupid intro,I know]. My daughter is inviting me and my wife[her mom] for a dinner because she is going to introduce to us her boyfriend. Well, I have no problem with that. But I have a lot of worries in my mind that I want to let out. I personally want to know more about my daughter's boyfriend. but I dont want my daughter to recognize that im being knowsy. I love my daughter so much and I dont want her worrying about uncomfortable issues about me and her boyfriend. I have always been so strict to her since she was young that almost all her friends call her daddy's girl. but then I tried to get looose of her now that she's in college because I want her to learn how to be independent. but somehow I feel that she's stil immature. or maybe because she is my baby.

NOw here's my question or I should say any help please.

How can I know or get to know more my daughter's boyfriend without my daughter or her boyfriend get offended.

I want you people to help on what questions should I ask to my daughter's boyfriend for me to gain knowledge about that guy.

Take note: its not that I dont like her boyfriend I just want to know more about him and secure that my daughter got the right choice.

I guess I mentioned too much info already. so please anyone HELP me produce questions that wouldn't hurt or offend anyone. any basics question.

oh by the way, I thought of this quesion as well: "How much can you support my daughter financially in the future?" *what do you think of that?

Thank you for those who could answer.