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Okaay . So I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 11 months now . We've never kissed and I have never been kissed . He has , but he doesnt count it because "it was with a slut and he apperantly had fishlips which didnt make the it count as kissing" Anyways . He really wants to kiss me (I could care less , it doesnt matter to me )
Im not the kind of person who is perfectly okaay with kissing and things like that . Thinking about it makes me nervous and scared .(He tried to kiss me awhile ago but I moved my head not knowing what he was doing because he was sitting beside me when he tried I thought he was just leaning o9ver me to get something) Espcially sonce my boyfriend is nervous about it , and makes it seem complicated . (He thinks that a first kiss is open mouthed )
People are always saying that its just like a little peck on the mouth at first (sometthing that you'd give family) But last night my Boyfriend asked if I would kiss back so im assuming that he might want a tiny bit more then a peck .
My questions !
So how do you kiss ? How do you kiss back ? What do you do with your arms or hands ? When is a good time to pull away without him thinking I didnt like it ? What if he does try to do open mouth ? (im not really comfortable or sure what to do if he does that ) What do I do if he does open mouth ? But more importantly what doyou do/say after you kiss someone for the first time ?
To tell you the truth when you and your partner start to kiss your not even going to notice if it's write or wrong.but if you need specific details just be natural -lean foward -open your mouth a little (its optional) -start kissing
it's defenetly NOT a big deal at all !
2) How do you kiss back ?
(read above)
3)What do you do with your arms or hands ? You could always hold his waiste hug him around his back or put your hands on his neck.
4)When is a good time to pull away without him thinking I didnt like it ? Onestly thats when you feel like it its not if you like it or not its when you feel comfterable
5)What if he does try to do open mouth ? (im not really comfortable or sure what to do if he does that )
you could always stop and tell him your not going to that level yet or just go along with it
6)What do I do if he does open mouth ?
Read above .
7) But more importantly what doyou do/say after you kiss someone for the first time ?
The truth weather you liked it or not its no big deal dont be paronoide neither.
Good luck hope this helped :)
just curious what are fishlips?
