How to handle a jealous boyfriend?

Tbh I know how you feel. I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for around 6 and a half months, and he still thinks that I like his best mate or his brother (neither btw :S would be wayyy to wierd!!)

It’s difficult trying to get them to see what’s going on from your perspective, especially if he’s making you delete people it sounds rather controlling.

If he means this much to you (as mine does) you have to learn to deal with it, and tell him how you feel about it. I’ve told my boyfriend that when he say’s things about me liking other people it makes me feel like he doesn’t trust me. It makes me wonder how he thinks I behave when I go on nights out with my friends. I’ve told him that I had a guy want to kiss me and I’ve said no I have a boyfriend and he said he didnt care he didn’t know him. And that I said I did and walked away. After having been out drinking with my friends (which is when I know I can be most vaunerable to flattery) I love my boyfriend and hate the thought of him not trusting me but it’s something I’m learning to deal with.

One thing I hope you can maybe give me advice on is the fact that he purposefully tries to make me jelous? Most of his close friends are girls, but that doesn’t bother me, When he sits next to me asking if I get jelous of Gemma or Alex or Becca or Caroline after undoing their bra’s… (he actually does that to all the girls he know’s it’s just the way he is) It just makes me wonder…

The worst was his ex girlfriend. She was HORRIBLE to him, like blackmailing him into sexual things while cheating on him. Safe to say … I do not like the girl… And one time round our friends house he was trying to make me feel jelous, brought up a picture of him, which she had commented something along the lines of “Stop looking at me like that baby it makes me just want to pounce on you” Which I found really quite hurtful, the fact he would go to that extent to purposefully try and make me jelous…

He kisses everyone at parties, as I say that is just who he is, it’s what he does. He will give anyone and everyone a kiss on the lips (no tongues) at parties, boys or girls. And that doesn’t bother me, because that’s who he is blah blah blah. But when I said I’d kissed a girl like that he didn’t like it, and started to sulk. I explained it was without tongues whatever, and was more alright with it, but I dont think he see’s how unbalanced it is between us at times…

I hope I’ve helped with some of your problems, and you can possibly return the favour. Sarah_Help