How to get over something that really bothers me?

How to get over something that really bothers me? hear is the problem, today, I was in church, I needed to talk to my Leader, and by the way, I’m mormon. I needed to talk to him about a relationship I’m dealing with. He wasn’t in church today, I couldn’t tell anyone else about this problem. I’m sort of involved with a man that’s originally from Nashville TN and lives in Kansas temporarly. I’m so turned on by him, and, afraid I might break certain rules of the Mormon faith. I keep calling him sweetie, nothing else everytime I leave him messages. I love his southern drawl everytime he talks to me, love his voice, and his sense of humor. I can’t seem to stop being flirtacious with this man since him and I been talking for quite some time. He is suposed to come out to see me in September and I’ve been real anxious. During church services, I kept thinking about him since he’s on my mind. I had to fight back tears since I needed to get this out! I can’t call my church leader for I know that him and his wife are away. I need some help as to how to stop being so flirtacious with this man I’m involved with before I do something that shouldn’t be right. The more him and I talk, the more I feel I’m doing something wrong spiritually. Please, if possible, give me some advice. I’d feel so much better.

Answer #1

easy sweetie…take it easy…

listen…I’m not a mormon…so I can’t give you advice on what your church would say, but if you love this man or feel you love this man…why is it wrong to get to know him? Talk to him…get to know him as a friend…I don’t see anything wrong with it…

I don’t know exactly how to advise you other then to say that love should be something that crosses over all boundaries…what’s wrong with talking and making a new friend? it’s perfectly natural for a smart young lady and a young man to feel attracted to each other…there is nothing wrong with that…its normal feelings…you’re 23 sweetheart…its natural to feel interested in guys and getting to know them…

if you feel confused for religion reasons, then I suggest you talk to a elder of your faith…but as a woman not much older then you, I can say its natural. don’t feel bad sweetie. it is normal. if you need to talk…message me here…I’ll answer as soon as I can…okay?

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