How to get my ex back?

ahh this is a hard one. im in the same position aswell. my ex and I broke up in september. I just didnt understand why everything was going great I (thought) he was the most loving, caring, easy going funiest person I could ever be with, he never stopped me going out with freinds and I never stopped him, we saw eachother every few days but were constantly texting and ringing. he bought me lots of little gifts and trinkets and even now I cant bring myself to throw them in the bin. they just sit there. it took me about 4 months to delete the texts weed sent eachother. but after I did it became easier. its harder now though, he plays with my mind telling me he wants me back and that he should never have dumped me,I was loving ect ect he still loves me and this tears me apart every time because I know its just not true.his ex girlfriend before me happens to be a good mate now, but he says to her the same things,exept in more detail, moreoften and I think he is actually telling the truth.I know I should just tell her but she is a wonderfull person and I know deep down he is too. they realy do deserve eachother and I always knew deep down he was still in love with her but I still cant let it go. I should stop texting him and stop having anything to do with him but when you live in such a small place its pretty hard to avoid someone, I thought I was over him :) and her and him nearli even went back out. but when I saw him one night and had had a little to drink, so had he, something just clicked and it all came rushing back, I didnt care and im not a horrible horrible person but it just felt so right. when I woke up in the morning I had no regrets, I know he did though and he text me pleading me never to tell her, its realy hard because she sits there and says how much she likes him and I have this guilt eating away at me, if I ever tell her our friendship will be ruined and never come back, and it will get rid of any chances of them getting back together, he stil sends me these texts but I try to ignore them, I know he realy does feel for her and just sees me as a peice of meat realy, she means so much more and for his sake I need to keep my mouth closed. yet im in this horrible position because deep down I reali do still like him. all my friends ask me why I havnt got over it yet, I know to him it was just a night, just a mistake but to me it was like we were going out again. back to how it used to be and I know that will be the last night I ever spend with him because I will never be anything like her :( sooo yeaah I no how you feel.. it suckss :(.. same boat?

well love is eternal. Are you asking for love in return or to be loved? Well to answer your question. tell him how you feel about him , what do you think about him, how much you miss him . in realationships its all about trust . So just show him you still got feelings for him. That you want to be with him and he’s your only one in your life that you love . Just tell him the truth. Hug him, flirt with him, talk to him , kiss him . cause look he just got out of a realtionship so comfort him . hoped I helped

Im not sure. I was in love and I know weird but also engaged to a guy. Then out of no where he kind of ignored so I asked him what was wrong and he was jest like well I dont want to tell you right now, so I was so scared. so I asked if he was happy with me and he said not really so we broke up (OMG I cried for 8 hours straight everyday for 2 weeks.) anyways. two days after we break up he hugs me and tells me he is still in love with me … now he wants absolutely nothing to do with me … got any help for me??? or are we stuck in the same damn boat???

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