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Haha, okay soo I just noticed that when I talk to the boy that I like..I don't know if I flirt cause..I don't know how to flirt lol. I was wondering, how do I flirt, I'm only in 8th grade so yeah.. Please help asap :]
Step 1: Talk about things you like (but not to much) and ask about things he likes.This step makes you closer.
Step 2:Be nice and calm,this shows him that if he does ssomething stupid when you are together you will be calm about but not too calm then he can walk all over you.
Step 3: Invite him to a movie or out with a bunch of friends, remember first do this with a few friends then invite him alone to a movie so you wont feel ackward.
Step 4: Make your move slowly,the guy you like might like you back and thats good but TAKE THINGS SLOW.Give him a hug when you see him right before school and after.
Step 5: Smile at him when he talks and never days dream off, blash your eyelashes a once per day while he talks smile a little while your doing this so then he wont freak out.
Step 6: Tell him how you feel. Once you do these steps for about a month (I said to take things SLOW)then tell him, mabye after a time with him after a movie or a winning football game. Look at the ground and say I really like you more than a friend, look him in the eyes after you say this, he might tell you his true feelings too.
I did all of these steps and now we have been dating for 1 year! =) happy flirting!!!
if you like a boy, you got to give off signs
sit next to him in class, but dont be like'oh im gonna sit next to him' or' come sit next to me !!' just think of a way you can sit next to him. and then start talking about stuff you like, and ask him what he thinks about it, and what he likes'
if you see him say hi and smile, then just walk off. he will probernly be looking at you now!(if you wanna go deep, turn around only using your head, but dont smile. it important you get that staright!)
ask for his moblie number/or msn so that way you can say'oh can I have your msn, so we can talk. and because im tryynaa get looads of people'
at break or dinner go up to him for like 1 minute just to say hi, make shure his friends are around him. because that way they can say 'oh she fancies you' stick around for those words. then smile and say byee. (at this point walk out sexily, and talk 2 your mates as if what just happened dint matter!!) HE WILL BE LOOKING FOR YOU. I HOPE THIS INFORMATION WAS HELP FULLL !!!)
My friend was really good friends with the boy and after that I started to talkto him about school and stuff I got his facebook and email and eventually I asked his number. it did work. when talking to him smile and laugh but not to much. once his friend go thru the touch barrier witch is where you tapp him on the shoulder and talk to him or hi-5 him on the way to class, or playfullly come up behind him and cover his eyes saying guess who !
slowly start to give him signs but try not to be to enthusiastic or he will feel turned off. remeber: eye contact is key but dont stare funny. twirl your hair occansionally smile and be yourself around him.
after this you may feel comfortable with him and he will to you. so find the right time to tell him your feelings . if rejected hug him and say no hard feelings. after that you will have to get over him but dont hate him 4 life, just still be friends.
there are plenty of fish in the sea. xxx
Okaii when you go to school act like you dont notice him. Then when you are walking all alone in the hall's make sure he is like close to you, then drop EVERYTHING!!! Everything you have in your hands and fall down to pick it up (but when you do this you have to make sure you have a lot of stuff!). So then he is going to come runing over to help you, and then after he is done you say, Oh thank you soo much! Then like a week or so start talking to him, ask him questions about the assighment's even though you already no the answers. Then ask him like in a month do he want to go out to a game or have dinner or watch a movie or ask him to totrail you, then after that while you have had all this time together like in a week from that tell him how you feel.
("I did thiis and me and ma boyfriend has been together for 1 year and 5 weeks")
Hope I helped xoxo
To flirt with a guy its easy all you have to do is make friends with him then after a while you get used to talking to him then kick in the flirting buy laughing at his jokes even when there not funny and flick your hair and if you have farliy big boobs make sure he knows(like my mum says if you've got it flont it) You can always use the hand size thing aswell buy saying do I have small hands then measuring them with him it always works for me.GOOD LUCK!
1.smile or say hi to him in the hallways. 2. laugh at his jokes and tell him hes funny 3.send him poems and give him a b-day card on his b-day 4.look at him in the eyes and tell him about your self 5.write him notes 6.be yourself and tell him how you feel!! soon hell ask you out im only in sixth grade and the boy asked me out I also didnt know how to flirt!!lol! wish you luck
ok I've been thur this already lol!.! when I like a boy and I see him just take a glance at me I make sure that he notices me. I smile(couse people say my smile is noticable) or I make sure that some one makes me laugh so I could laugh loud enough so that they could hear me..
smile and laugh with him not at him. be his friend for about a month. then dont be rude are anything but ignor him. this well drive him nuts and he well be dieing to know what he did. then all of a sudden he well be all over you!
when he walks past you lock eyes with his then with a lil playful grin let your eyes wonder up and down as if your checking him out the continue on your way lil huni not all flirting is done with words..
You just talk to them, bat your eyelashes (not insanly fast or weird though), touch his hand or shoulder when you talk to him, laugh at all his jokes, smile at him often.
