How to bring up having sex in a convosation?

How to bring up having sex in a convosation?

This is with a guy that I have talked about with and he is fine, but neither of us have the nerves to bring it up and talk about it face to face.x

Answer #1

well I sorta agree with bobcat…

but then again if it was easier to talk about maybe then that would mean he is using you or something I don’t know…

but all I know it with me and my boyfriend we just kinda play around

we just have fun with it. no freaking out or anything like oh my god I have to be perfect.

I don’t know if I helped but lol thought id give some insight

Answer #2

starters:

“… lol I caught my brother/cousin/friend watching porn so I started yelling at him (or other something else), man I find it (your opinion), what do you think?”

or “hey I was reading this book called “ how to have great sex” it had some really insightful stuff…”

or “oh man theres porn everywhere on the internet…etc..etc…”

kinda opens up the conversation about sex, everything else is dependent on you…

Answer #3

Bobcat is right, I agree. If you don’t want to be treated like a 13 year old, which I don’t really think you were, then don’t act like, or come off as one?

Answer #4

Bobcat…your opioun but it is a difficult subject to bring up. You may be a pro at it but I sure am not. I can talk to him about everyhting and anything so don’t start giving me that talk treating me like a fckin 13 year old.

Answer #5

First talk about what new movies are coming out that you want to see and then bring up a funny movie about sex like Superbad or Knocked Up and then BAM! you’ve got an opening to talk about sex. Why doyou need to bring up sex anyways? Just wondering…

Answer #6

eazy. sort ov ease in2 it. like talk about sumthin then start axin questions. while asking questions, ask about previous sex partners if any and then talk about u2 having sex or talk about having sexual fears. simple. gud luck ;)

Answer #7

well what I think is if you both don’t have the nerves to talk about it with one another than you shouldn’t be having sex with each other.

Answer #8

as security94 said ease into it is best you proberly both feel the same so he will most likely be relieved youve brought it up :)

good luck and have fun

Answer #9

ok well first thing you should do is definitely just like talk to him normally then as time goes on kinda hint around it then hopefully he’ll get the hint

Answer #10

I agree with bobcat! If you cant even talk about it, then how do you expect to do it?

Answer #11

_> some people take jokes to seriously sigh

Answer #12

bobcats right you know :P :P :P

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