How to break up???

You have a nut. be careful for who you date. The way to break up wiff her is to tell her your not happy and you need to ge out of this environment. If she trys to go loco on you juss threaten that you will call the police and tell them she tried to commit homocide or suicide. then she gets in trouble in the long run.

Tell her quite simply that you are ending the relationship and when she tries to harm herself, call the police.

Once they get there you can leave and don’t look back - your part in this is done. You can’t control how she behaves and staying with her out of fear of her hurting herself is just wrong.

jlc727.. it is not about spark it is about commitment..I’m for a whole other cultur and religion..I care about her..she is crazy about me “obviosly”..she told me that she loves me.. and I see that growing every day..but I can’t do any thing about it..becuse I don’t see this relationship is gowing any where..

teebearily1 & ichibanarky.. first of all I cannot break up with her just like that.. like I’m quiting from a jim or somthing ..no..I care about her..she grow up an orphen..I can’t do this to her..all what I want is to break up with her in a way that doesn’t harm her..I know it will hurt her and break her heart..but it is for the best

Look, it’s not about who she is, where she came from, how you feel, etc…if you want to leave her it’s going to have to be a clean break - there’s nothing else to do about it.

If she’s going to harm herself, let the authorities deal with her.

You can’t expect there to be any way of leaving her without hurting her, so you may as well just stay with her.