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How to be vulnerable??
I don’t even know where to start. I’m 19 year-old girl who’s never had a boyfriend. I’ve had many, many offers from many very nice guys but I always turn them down. I think my last crush ended when I turned 14.
A majority of my best friends are guys, but I’ve never had any romantic feelings towards any guy (or girl, let’s just clarify that I’m STRAIGHT). Most of the time I don’t care about ever having a guy care for me… then I have very brief moments where I would love to be cared for.
My papa just passed away a couple weeks ago, and at the funeral even though I was trying to hold back the tears I still wouldn’t let any of them even hug me. :-/
I’ve gone through a rough time with my own parents. My parents never loved each other and my dad has been abusive to both my mum and me. They’ve recently separated.
I tend to be a very outgoing person, I’m confident and pretty. I do tend to be a little flirt at times (which I guess is why I attract so many boys). But I don’t want to be this way… How can I loosen up and allow myself to be vulnerable??
My fiance’s mom and dad pretty much hate eachother, she was really slutty for a long time because of it, it made her believe that love was fake, it was just about the penis.
I changed that.
Honestly, I would think about talking to a pshychiatrist. You were obviously brought in a house that showed no emotion and affection so you were raised to think that it’s normal to be that way. That can be a very hard habit and mindset to break. You should really talk to someone.
you shouldn’t want to be vulnerable… but you should talk to someone… you could just try being closer and more open to a few of your friends… let them hug you… let them know your feelings, even if it’s just a little bit at a time… you will find someone who is ready and willing to be there for you and give you that love and comfort that you need… good luck…
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