How to arouse a very cold lady of 40years ?

My girl friend is generally very cold lady and it is very difficult to get her in loving mood ? What should I do ? I am living with her for the last 15 years !

Answer #1

It sounds as if the passion has died out. It might not just be the sex is the problem. It could be something emotional or her sex drive could just be really diminishing. I know you know what she likes and I know, you know, what you have no done with or to her that she would enjoy. Make her feel like she’s young again. And figure out why she is being so distant. Try and slim up by dieting or working out. Show that you actually care about your looks again instead of just accepting the relationship and yourself.

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