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I want to accept everything about me which I almost do besides when it comes to my body. I have a large frame size and I hate it. My calves are huge and so is my stomach. The width is just gross. I have no problem accepting others but why can't I accept myself? I'm aware you can't change your frame which sucks lol. I just want to accept it so how do I boost my confidence?
Btw please no ranting like god gave you a body blah blah I'm a straight up atheist...and stuff like that annoys me...
I believe that your born with what you have and you should not hate it. Sure you may not seem like one of those teenage girls splattered upon a seventeen magazine, or modeling for some t.v. add. But, have you ever realized that no curvacious women are posted on the front of a magazine wearing their bra and panties? Its because society has got this thing going where they paste a body imagine that they all believe to be sexy. Those of us who do not fit that special size or figure end up feeling over weight or ugly. I say screw it. Life is to short to raunt on about how much you dislike yourself, when you could be spending that time finding out the qualities you have that make you who you are, beautiful inside and out. Dont judge yourself by what you see but what you do and how you interact with others. Fore, most times the most beautiful persons in the world can be the ugliests and the ugliests the prettiests. Life is short, you could die any second. If you still dont cherish what you have that your genes have been passed on then just try different things. I know its hard being built more curvacious then others, but there are tons of people out there that are going to meet you and fall in love with you for who you are. so just smile. screw the people that judge you they are 89 percent of the time just jealous of you. && the love of your life isnt going to care about what you look like on the outside but the inside.
I myself am not athiest, so I do believe God gave you what you gave you, love it... Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. :)
But I know how hard it if to accept yourself. I look in the mirror at my small frame, and cry and cry. I know a TON of guys who love big frames, curvy's sexy to a lot of guys. Being a small frame isn't great. Because (as stupid as this may sound,) I'm a smaller frame, and I gain weight quick. When small framed people gain weight, it ain't pretty.
All you can do is look at yourself in the mirror and look at all the positive stuff you have. I know sometimes you look at yourself and think, there;s nothing good I can find. But looking at your pictures, you're gorgeous. You've got big, perfect eyes I myself would kill for. Your hair's a great color and really long. You don't seem to be big at all. Look at your skinny arms! you've got long, pretty skinny legs I'd die for... Need I go on?
If you need any help, fun mail me girl!
♥ and peace!!
well I'm a big guy too and it gets to the point where you want to do something about it badly and obviously it bothers you and you want to do something about it. exercise maybe, but do it in a fun way, find something you like...walking a pet, playing Wii (which is considered exercise lol) personally I love sports but again, I'm a big guy so I picked boxing, helps with stress and it's a great workout.
ow... its really a hard thing...
but... the answer on how 2 accept it,is in you...
if you cant really accept it... well... you nid a self sacrifice...^^
EXCERCISE...^^
LOVE YOURSELF EVERYONES PERFECT IN THEIR OWN WAYS , I USED TO BE OVERWEIGHT NOW IM HAPPY WITH MY BODY JUST BE HAPPY WITH IT ! x
I have trouble with that too but when I look in the mirror now I only look at the good parts of my self and not the bad parts
There are a lot of guys who are attracted to your body type. Trust me...
YOU LOOK FINE TO ME ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD,
