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Convincing parents to let me get spiderbites

ok to start off im 14 I did have a thing about this but she still wont let me I want spiderbites on both sides of my lip and its not because I’ve seen other people with em and w.e and I told her that once their healed I can take it out if I need to… she’ll let me get a tattoo but not a piercing but I told her I don’t want a tattoo I want a piercing…I don’t it a tattoo is there forever but with a piercing you cld take it out or put it back in w.e she was ok with it not to long ago but now shes saying no also my cuzzin wld be able to do it because he a pro and what not please help!!! =-(

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Answer #1

I’m 14 too, I had snakebites done at the start of the summer and it took ages for her to let me get it done. Tell her that you can take it and that it will close up after a while if she really doesn’t like it. Just a little warning if you do get it done, mine went wrong after six days and the inside of my lip swallowed the bar completely and I had to go back to the shop and get them taken out with plyers, it was very, very painful and I wouldn’t risk it happening again by getting another piercing, my lip was very swollen and I wasn’t able to speak. If you are getting them done just consider if you are willing to go through pain for a long time if it goes wrong. Mine was fine after a few days but for a couple of days my bottom lip was too swollen to close and I couldn’t eat or drink without it spilling out of my mouth. Be extra careful with your piercings, good luck x

Answer #2

thankz I convinced her to let me get snakebites and if it workz out I can get 2 more! =-)!

Answer #3

its probley because shes scared of you growing up so fast I mean go with a tatoo and then see if you can deal with the pain and then talk to your mum and say look mum plez can I get spiderbites if I go off them I can take them out and thay will heal easily if she says no just say plez mum im growing up and I need to build up Independence for when I move out and become my own person and make my own choses I will do that someday and I will be ready if you let me make some of my own choses plus cuzzun(wots his name)will do it so you wont have to worry about infection and wot not hope it all goes well :-)

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