how should I break it off wit my boyfriend

tell him that you don’t want to be with him and that your sorry but if your with him it will basically be a lie because you don’t love him.

You can’t break up with him unless the feelings are still there…

I know how hard yo-yo relationships are for you - to really cut all ties cleanly, overwhelm each other with affection. Give in to what he wants - whatever it is. Be together always - suffocate each other with love and never let the world intrude on you, as much as possible. The focus should be on your boyfriend and with no one else…

You’d probably think this is weird and works against the breakup you want to achieve, but think about this: if you’re doing one thing most of the time - all the time - don’t you slowly realize how boring it is?

I know you’re bored - and doing this will make you bored to the point of irritation but the effect of boredom shall also be felt by him. In either case, he will get so tired of always being together with you that when the break up comes not a trace of the affection remains nor lingers…

And that is what a genuine breakup should be. No feelings of any sort remain - love, resentment, whatever.

I hope that helped…