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How rare is it to orgasm often and at the same time?

I’ve been told and have done research and it seems that it’s pretty rare for a women to climax a lot. I typically orgasm like 95%-98% of the time my guy and I have sex or he fingers or goes down on me. My record is 9 times in one night. We’ve both climaxed at the same or within a minute or less of each other many times. I’m curious, is this really that rare?

Also, how long should foreplay/sex, guess more the actual sexual acts, last for? IN my current research (I’m always looking for ways to improve) it makes it sound like the climax should be reached quickly, but I always thought it’s supposed to be take time to build up so it’s better and perhaps lasts longer. Longer orgasms are AMAZING! My guy also gets kinda “down” that he can’t last for more than hour, but something I just read made it sound like a guy lasting an hour is pretty rare too.

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Answer #1

Well, I’m still kinda new to the whole sex thing, so. That 9 times in one night has only been a one time. Typically it’s once to maybe three times at the most…probably just once or twice though. But yes, I typically orgasm.

He usually tries to go for an hour total. Last time he said he wish he could go longer than an hour, but honestly, I think that’s pretty good. Haha, now I’m kinda curious to time how long the thrusting goes on for, but I know that’s not an hour. Damn, I’d be sore if it did.

Thinking about it now, I’m wondering if we’ve peaked at the same time cause he holds back until I’m about ready to go or if we’re just that in sync. Do I dare ask that though?

Answer #2

WTF? 98% of the time this doesn’t happen…and you’re asking IS IT RARE?? Seriously?

…how long should foreplay/sex, guess more the actual sexual acts, last for?

Dunno - how long does it last for YOU? Is it good? If not, then should it last (FOR YOU) longer, or shorter? Seriously…if you’re HAVING sex…then you should have an idea what you LIKE and DON’T especially if you’re having so many orgasms.

And your guy lasts more than an hour…is that thrusting, or in total? Fact is, less than .1% of guys can last that long, thrusting…so either you’re a sexual anomoly, or making this all up.

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