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How is it bad when you love someone ?

How is it bad when you love someone but they do love you but there is problems ok im 16 and im in love with this 20 year old he just turn 20 and we cant date because hes to old but we love each other we going to be with each other forever when I turn 18 he wants to ask me out but is it bad if he ask me to merry him I don’t know I need help what should I do

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Answer #1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years…since I was 17 (almost 18) and he was 25. I am now 21 and he is 29 and we are madly in love and he has made me a much more independent person and I am who I am today because of him! I work, go to school, have a car and a house and I pay for all my stuff (half the bills, my car, school) and when I met him I was just a party party party just about to graduate high school, had no plan and no direction but we saw something in each other and we have never looked back. So sometimes it does work, but not all the time older guys can be creeps and prey on younger girls because they are easier to manipulate. Just be careful, but if you truly loved each other he wouldn’t want to wait until your 18 he really isn’t that much older. 16 and 20 aren’t bad at all I don’t think, I think girls mature faster than guys and that’s why some younger girls mesh well with a lil bit older guys like me for example.

Answer #2

Sigh. How exactly do you know that you two will be together forever? Well, you’ll find out that life isn’t perfect one day.

As for the topic of your relationship, why on earth are you worried about him asking to marry you? You haven’t even started dating! Seriously, wait until you are 18 and a legal adult and actually get to know him better. Marriage is far off for you two, believe me.

Answer #3

I no someone who is in the exact situation. Guys that old shouldnt be messing around with someone as young as you. I understand you guys love eachother, but guys that old that are trying to mess with someone that young will minipulate you &+ play games with you. Its not right for him to mess with your head. I no you might think age is nothing but a number and you might think your mature enough to be with him, I dont no you but I can tell you that you still have some growing up to do, and he’s too old. Moveee onnn.!

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