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how/I dont know how2deal with this(yes,im not ovr my abusive mom)/?

(listen to “the last song im wasting on u” by evanescence before reading or your probly gonna be confused)I’m sorry I’ve been posting so much stuff about this, but this is really irritating. about the song, I sent it to my mom after not speaking to her in maybe 2 months. She was abusive and sprained my wrist, ripped my hair out (along with my 2 other sisters ages 2 and 7, grabbed my 2yr old sis by the scruff of her shirt and carried her 2 another room, threw her on the bed, closed the door and walked away. She left me at home for days(sometimes weeks) at a time when I live down the street from my molester/uncle of the summer. I finally filed many reports of her abuse and thought that sending her the lyrics would make her give a reaction. She hasn’t responded. either CPS won’t let her contact me, or shes choking on the cloud that her head is in. its driving me nuts, what do you think she thinks of it???

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Answer #1

That song is amazing one of my favorites of all time and it does really relate to your situation. Hopefully if your mom still has at least a shred of humanity left in her she’ll understand and hopefully be remorseful.

If that doesnt work though you proably will be better off forgetting about her. Dont linger on the people who have hurt you.

hope everything works out

Answer #2

If your mother did that to you I would not contact her at all. You might have some illusion of her comming around but she won’t. I have seen this happen a lot of times. Woman especially tend to try and contact their abuser over time. Trust me, you’re better of not contacting her. And it might be hard but you still have the rest of your familie. Concentratew on them instead her.

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