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Hm, how should I start this? Well, I've been in a relationship with someone for the past 7-8 months.. Before we started dating, we were good friends, along with our familys were close. We are always together, (whenever he asks me to comeover, or hangout, because I feel annoying when I ask.) and we talk on the phone almost every single night enless he's busy or whatever. Last week he started acting weird, and I knew that it was coming to an end, he just didnt wanna hurt me (because he left me 2 times before, but he always comes back.) So this time, I ended things with him.. he seems to be doing fine without me, and it really hurts that after all of this time he really doesnt miss me :( because I miss him like crazy and it aleady seems like hes moved on.. I don't know what to do, I wish I never would have ended things he was my first love.. what do I do from here?
yeah I agree with breakingfan. guys don't tend to really show their emotions nor are they willing to confess to them. This guy well he dated you for 8 months and 8 months you just can't forget. ofcourse he misses you, you say you guys were good friends before and your families were close and all so im guessing you guys been knowing each other for some time and therefor care much for each other. unfortunately relationships come to an end and well this one did too. you say you saw it coming and therefor proceeded into breaking things off yourself something I applaud you for because I know it took a lot from you since seems like you didnt wanna do it since you still wanted to be with him, but he didn't and one person doesn't want to be in it then there isn't much that can be done than to move on and you took a good first step to it. you say he's moving on and most likely he is if things didn't work out. you should do the same. I mean like I said you already took a good first step on spotting that it was over. you'll be fine without him. trust me just keep yourself busy to set your mind off him and when you least expect it you'll find someone whom will make you happy again.
hope this really helped you and good luck :)
alright well 1st thing is that he does miss you. guys won't show much emotion. alright so calm down about that. also guys literally have it easier to move on after a relationship. girls do tend to have a much harder time than guys. also you should start to try to move on as well. I know its hard but if you don't things will just get harder. but look at the bright side I suppose, you said he was acting weird and you knew it was coming to an end, well at least you seen this coming and all and it wasn't out of the blue. just relax listen to music hang out with friends, have fun just don't be so hard and down on yourself trust me.
