Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months, and all we've done is kissed.. I really wanna move to the next step, but I'm kinda scared. Does it hurt when someone fingers you for the first time? and where is the best place to do it ?
Im a guy and I've fingered girls when it was their first time and it didnt seem to hurt them at all. They still seemed to enjoy it. But if you really re afraid you can finger yourself the first time and see how it feels yourself.
Being fingered feels so good the first time I did it with a 15 year old and it didn't hurt at all during it we just kissed and that's usually what you should do to be honest and make moan sounds too he likes it