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how do you get horny??? and in the mood??

im 18 and a virgin and I was with a guy the other night… he was rubbin my vagina over my shorts but I didnt feel or get horny at all!! and I like him! he asked me if I felt anythin and I said no.. I honestly didnt feel like making out or anything… but the thing is.. when I watch porn with girls gettin * it really gets me horny… is there something wrong with me? im not lesbian

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Answer #1

there’s nothing wrong with you. you just don’t want to have sex. if you do it when you’re not turned on you won,t be wet so you’ll have to lube up and plus it won,t feel as good. it would be a chore.

Answer #2

You are either not sexually attracted to him or he wasn’t doing anything good enough to make you want him.

There is nothing wrong with you. He could have been doing it wrong or not focusing on the right part of the vagian (the clit), most younger guys don’t realize that’s where most of their focus comes from. You also can’t just jump into oral sex or manual stimilation and be turned out right away. Some women require kissing, touching, skin to skin contact, things like that to be turned out. If he just jumped right to rubbing your vagina, no wonder you were that into it. He didn’t turn you on first.

Answer #3

sorry about that but whach porn with him and then have sex

Answer #4

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