How do other people get over the akwardness of dating?

Whenever I go out with somebody, it turns akward. No matter how much I know this person, and like them, it just feels really akward and uncomfortable and I end up breaking up with the person. Im going to go out with this this guy that I really like in about a week, but I dont want to ruin anything by the akward dating. I am ready to date. What should I do? What do other people do?

Answer #1

I agree with givemsmthn2tlkabout, she has some good points in her advice. Be yourslef, really. I remember my first date, Im 16, my first was four months after my birthday. Any ways, it was really horribly awkward for me. I was so shy and quiet, but when I had first met this guy, I was the out going dork that I usually am. Needless to say he was slightly confused. So we went to a movie, BEFORE having dinner that way we had somethin to talk about. Really it just takes pracitce. I’ve only had four dates in my life lol but be yourself, its always the best solution. Best of luck!! :)

Answer #2

Maybe I’m the only one who does this, but what I do is come up with interesting points of conversation ahead of time like things he likes to talk about or things you both have in common so you can talk about that if any awkward sileences come up. Maybe you could try going to a movie. Easiest first date ever because you don’t really have to do much exceot cuddle and if youre lucky, kiss. Very little conversation but you get to spend time with them :) Have fun, and don’t worry about it! If you worry, it will just be a self-fulfilling prophecy! Good luck :D

Answer #3

Dating, especially in the beginning is always a little nerve wracking. I know it sounds cliche, but you gotta stop thinking about it. The more you think about how awkward things seem, the more awkward things get. Just be yourself. Act how you would around your family or your best friend. And remember, your date is probably just as nervous as you are. Good luck!

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