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How do I mak her love me more than she loved her ex?

I called her one day and she was crying I asked her what hapned and her ex told her she used him and played with his feelings and she says she never did that and that she really loved hm a lot , I felt bad and my friend told me she saw him in vacations and that she fell for him again and felt bad for me because I really love her , I love this girl shes so beutiful , she makes my heart go fast and I dont want to lose her or her thinking of him , how do I be better than her ex? what do I do what do I tell her , how do I I make her love me more than what she loved him , or I don’t know she still feels something for him I guess help!!!

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Answer #1

it is impossible to control another person’s feelings, but you probably already know this. I’ve never been in such a situation but I’d advise you reassure her that her ex was a horrible person by trying to take advantage of her feelings like that and that you’re there for her… does she know how you feel? if you’re too embarassed to say anything I’d advise doing something like changing her ringtone for you to michael jackson’s “you are not alone” or “tied together with a smile” by taylor swift depending on her preferences, otherwise, just show her through your actions and NEVER throw the fact that you helped her through this difficult time come out in the heat of the moment… especially not when you confess your feelings (tact is key). I hope that everything works out well for you and im praying for u

Answer #2

if you know you’ve already done all the possible efforts to make it all work, yet she is still hooked with her ex, then the next best thing to do is to be man enough to let go of her. there’s no more to override love that know’s how to set someone free. besides, might ‘ve meant that you deserve someone waay better to come your way. be positive. :)

Answer #3

you cant MAKE her love you as the above said you cant control anyones feelings all you can do is tell her how much you love her and hope she feels the same it will take a lot of time before he gets over her ex

Answer #4

I have never been in you situation, but if I were you I would ask what type of things made her marry her ex and make sure to do those things. Also ask what type of things made her brakeup and make sure to not do those things. You can’t control her feelings. Just be your self. Try to let her know how you feel without telling her directly. Hope everything works out for you. Wish you the best!!

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