How do I tell my phone love(24)that I'm a lot older(35)?

I met a girl on the net. I had no intention of doing this but we talked, really got along well and after 5 weeks of a few hours a day conversations, we fell in love with each other. She’s 24, I’m 35 and she claims she loves who I am. I too I love her. Everything is so honest in our words except my age. We lift each other,help each other…Everything a great love needs. I dont want to lose her, It would destroy both of us. I hate this happened. We are both in so deep. Now she plans on meeting me. I care for her so very much and it’s killing me that I let us get to this place. I do not want her to be hurt. I’m so lost. Please help.

Answer #1

No easy way out here, you’re just going to have to be honest. Basically tell her what you’ve told us and then let her think it over. The fact that you lied about it means you need to be extra honest and earn her trust again. She might not mind as much as you think maybe she has some hidden secret she needs to get out. No one is perfect but fact is, the longer you let the lie run, the harder it will be on both of you. Bottom line, speak the truth and get this off your chest.

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