How do I tell my mom I'm Pregnant?

How? I’m scared she might hate me. I’m scared she’ll kick me out. I’m scared she might make me break up with my boyfriend.

Answer #1

If he’s as old as I understand, and you’re as young as I understand —

No one has yet to mention a real BIG issue on top of all this — It’s called statutory rape… YOU can call it consentual, but in the eyes of the law — tain’t so — and with you being a minor, there’s no escaping this part of the problem that will likely come up too…

If your mother decides, she can press charges against him… and if it turns out you really are pregnant, he’ll end up with being listed as a sex offender — for the rest of his life, and you, depending on if the pregnancy is allowed to continue will have a child…

Fact is… he DID get you “knocked up”, because he’s a grown man, and should have known better. Unprotected sex means among other things that getting pregnant is very possible! We won’t mention the potential diseases that go with that too…

If you have a good relationship with your mother, she’ll be BEYOND angry, but she will back you up I’m sure…

If you’re not sure you’re pregnant yet… get tested… once you know one way or the other you’ll have some options.

If you’re not officially pregnant — you have 3 options really…

1.) don’t have sex anymore until you’re much older (despite how enjoyable it is) sex with someone does not mean love — not at all — 2.) USE A CONDOM! (EVERY! TIME!) 3.) Have a talk with your mother about getting you on something…and STILL use a condom!

…and something else to consider… Who ever you sleep with — you’re not only sleeping with that person, you’re also sleeping with whoever they were with before you (I assure you he’s been with others before you) — so, if he’s unprotected with you, he was likely unprotected with them, and that means anything they had, he got, and gave to you…

I’m not telling you anything here that I wouldn’t tell my own daughter if I had to… A 13yr old is not experienced enough in life or in herself to be having sex… That’s why they made it criminal…

Despite all of this — you HAVE to tell your mother sooner or later —

I hope it all turns out well for you in the end…

Answer #2

Everything that wbman100 said, just make sure that you make her promise NOT to freak out on you. Tell her the truth, and tell her that you MIGHT be pregnant but don’t know for sure. Tell her that it’s not your boyfriends fault and to not press charges. Repeatedly tell her that. However, don’t press her to let you keep going out w/ him, because if she really cares about you, she most likely won’t let you stay w/ him. Make sure she’s comfortable when you tell her. Tell her that she can punish you later, but that right now you’re F*ing scared and need her help to get through this. Tell her that you’re afraid of being kicked out and that she’ll hate you. Tell her everything, just make sure it’s in the right order. I’m a guy, so I don’t exactly know what that order is, but I DO know that not telling her the entire truth will lead to bitterness in your relationship with her later on in your life. I hope I could help

Answer #3

This post is being locked. Please do not argue on the boards.

Answer #4

well if I were you I wud 2ake a pregnancy test like in 1 or 2 more weeks or tommorow or watever. but you dont know 4 sure your pregnant.n DON’T tell your mom your pregnant until dah pregnancy test. GOOD LUCK 4 REALS…:)

Answer #5

I also read your other question, you do not even know if you are pregnant, as I said I noticed you are aries? and I am aware they really do like a bit of drama… so maybe this is why to sway toawards the more negative outcomes… look inside yourself …are you making a mountain out of a molehill ?

Answer #6

do you think this incident will help you learn to refrain from sex or use a form of protection? or will you be asking the same question next month?

Answer #7

(this is tough love so sorry if it is mean) if your boyfriend got you knocked up he is not the best for you not telling your mom will make it worse she will find out anyway you are young and wont be able to handle this trust me she probably will be upset but she 100% will help you

Answer #8

this is probly the worst timing, but for all those who yelled at me. this is the perfect example of when I said young kids arent ready

You never stop do you?

She made a mistake…she’s scared…is there even a grain of humanity in you?

Answer #9

hi again… You can’t be sure you are pregnant at this time because you said you and your boyfriend had sex yesterday…so you don’t need to tell her you’re pregnant…if you do want to tell her you would say that you ThiNk you may become pregnant and go over the reasons with her of why.

You sit her down and you tell her you are in a very serious situation … you tell her exactly how you feel…scared…confused…etc. You tell her that you had sex with your boyfriend yesterday and you fear of becoming pregnant. You both can go over your options at this time. She will probably get mad at you, but you take it as it is because she is your mother and the one who can help you through this.

Answer #10

You know nothing about me. You don’t know if your smarter than me or more stupid. If you knew me in real life, and knew me well, you would be REALLY surprised that I had sex at this age. But you know nothing about me, so why say that, eh?

I know, I was stupid and dumb for having sex at this age. But everyone in life makes mistakes, some small some big. This was the big mistake that I made in my life.

Now, your gonna back talk again to this comment? Don’t even bother commeting here. I don’t need you making me feel any worse or more upset that I already am.

Answer #11

Well excuse me for having english as my second language. Why the f* would you say something when for all you know, I could be getting a person typing everything up for me because I don’t know english.

Well I’ll tell you something. I’m NOT english. I don’t know english as well as you. So EXCUSE ME FOR NOT UNDERSTANDING SOMETHING YOU SAID. CAUSE ENGLISH IS MY SEOND F*ING LANGUAGE! I am russian. I speak russian. AND english.

Seriously? Your not that much older than me, so don’t even go there.

Answer #12

I was patient!!! FK YOU!!! I wasn;t crazy to have sex. I just chose to. Because I did. Not becauce I am sex crazy. I just said yes., I didn’t think exactly. Yes I admit that!! BUT I AM NOT F*G CRAzY OR UNPATIENT FOR SEX. I cwill wait till I am married to have sex again! If your gonna leave comments like that, just don’t leave any at all. F* YOU.

Answer #13

So you had sex at a young age? Your impatient?? I am sooo confused.

Answer #14

and btw, that comment form me above goes out to ashlyn_elizabeth

Answer #15

My boyfriend didn’t get me knocked up. I agreed with it. So, it was all willing.

Answer #16

Do not do anything until you know for sure.

Answer #17

I’m not airies…I’m a leo…

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