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My friend started talking to this guy I know from school. If you went to my school you would know that this guy is the biggest player. I tried telling her he's a jerk, whenever he would randomly leave her and come back for a booty call. He comes off like he cares, but really he doesn't. I don't want her to get hurt again from this guy. What's the nicest way possible to tell her he's an asshole.
okay, if your friend is really into this guy you say is a "player" then she isnt ganna take your advice no matter how hard you try to get your point across. In the end she will do what she wants, even if she knows she will only get hurt in the end.
The best thing you can do, is just let her know that you are always there for her, and you will be there if she does get hurt.
You have to let her make her own mistakes, no matter how much it might hurt you.
just ignore all cases and try not to give advices to her. and dont interfere both of their problems. wait until she finds out that he is a playboy. and you can get close to her again. the more you gives her advices and meddling her problems with him. the more he doesnt believe you, the more he hates you and the more she likes him. ok?
Instead of worrying about being NICE, you should try being DIRECT. After that, if she doesn't listen, let her crash and burn. You'll have done all you can.
Step one: Mind your own business and let people make their own decisions, for better or worse.
Step two: Repeat step one as often as necessary.
