How do I tell my boyfriend to stop being annoying and clingy?

He texts me 24/7, and if I dont’ reply back once, he keeps texting me non-stop, and it can get very irritating to me. I love him, but I wish he would stop bugging me so much. I know that he cares about me, and just worries, but he does it to a point where I can’t take it anymore..

Answer #1

You should feel lucky actually because a lot of girls wish their boyfriends contacted them this much you know? Maybe ask him to tone it down a little because it comes off as clingy and I think the word clingy will make him realize he doesn’t want to be a guy you can walk all over or that gets pushed away because he is TOO clingy, explain the difference in being clingy and attentive to your girlfriend maybe he will understand the difference and try to fix it to keep you around…But all in all I think you should keep dating him and ask him to just chill out, to give you time to respond to one text before he starts blowing your phone up…or thinking that you are ignoring him. Explain to him that your WHOLE life does not revolve around him, even though a good part of it does you can’t always be up his butt like he is yours! Good luck and just try not to be harsh, but still be clear of what you want from him!

Answer #2

well maybe you should explain to him that you need space and when peple are together to much it hurts their relationship and tel him distance makes the heart grow fonder

Answer #3

This sounds a little obvious… but have you actually told him it bugs you?

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