how do I tell her that I dont wanna be a father?

ok, well… maybe apply for a small job, maybe in a shop after school or on weekends or something… put money in a bank account to have some money for the baby. you WILL have to tell your parents eventually about whats happened. you need to stay with her.. the one thing a girl needs when shes expecting a baby is a supportive other half. from what you’ve said, it sounds like she wants to keep the baby. you need to sit down with her, and make a pros and cons list type thing.. because it WILL in every way change your life. you need to take this responsiblity head on. your going to be a dad. so congratulations. if you need any help or more advice feel free to mail me. good luck man.

I am a girl, i was pregnant, and my boyfriend didn’t want me to keep the baby. We were young, also. After many nights and long phone conversations i decided he was right and I gave our baby girl up for adoption. We told our parents, and they were not even the slightest bit supportive. They were furious. I know people will tell you, “well you made the decision…so live with it” but i know how it is. I wish sometimes that i could have my daughter with me, but i know i did what was right for her. Your parents will eventually find out anyways, so you need to do what you and your girlfriend think will be best for your baby, i wish you luck…hope i helped.