How do I know if he's gay? Girls AND GUYS help!?

I’m best friends with a guy? We’ve been best friends all the way through high school. So I know him pretty well. He’s always been completely normal in every way. He’s never ever shown any signs whatsoever of being gay. He’s had girlfriends, dresses like a regular high school dude would and talks about girls just like a normal honry teenage guy would at 18. But recently when we were talking, we somehow got onto the subject of how girls can look at another girl and be like “Wow, she’s really hot” and not be gay for saying that. He said that he can do the same thing, and tell if a guy is hot or not. I didnt really think that was weird or anything, because us girls do that to. But then he asked me if when I look at a girl that I think is hot, if I get a “tingly” feeling? I didnt know what he meant, because I’ve never had that happen to me, but he said it happens to him. Soo, does that mean he’s gay or is this a normal guy thing?

Answer #1

another thing is to see if he is, is when your in a public place is to see who he does check out when he doesnt think your looking. That was how I found out one of my friends was gay

Answer #2

It could be that he is. It could also mean that he is bi or something. Or meaby he is just exploring. But I think that you should ask him, you guys have known eachother for a long time and all so he should have no problem telling you the truth you know?

Answer #3

he’ll grow out of it

Answer #4

umm… most likely he is gay

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