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How do I know if he likes me or if I'm just his hoe?

he just turned 15 and I’ll be 16 in two months. for the last four months we have been friends with benefits. We dont have sex but we go farther than just making out… I am crazy mad in love with him. And I know he likes me but how do I find out if he loves me? I also know that yall are going to think im a “home wrecking whore” and “low” but im not so if thats what your gonna say then dont answer my question. BIG PROBLEM: he has a 14 yr. old girlfriend who he has been in a relationship with for 9 and a half months!!! they cheat on eachother alll the time. he never cheats on her by having sex but she screws anything that walks. and thats a fact. not my opinion. I have no harsh feelings for his girlfriend.. I just wish she would appreciate what an amazing boyfriend she has. ANYWAYS. he spent valentines day with ME not her. he hangs out with ME almost every weekend. not her. and there is absolutely no sign at all of them breaking up any time soon. So … How do I find out if he loves me or if he likes me and im just something to play with?? Cause I’ve liked him for THREE YEARS! and now I love him. so what do I do?

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Answer #1

the question is do YOU want to be with soemone who assumingly likes you but stays with a girl who sleeps around with anything that moves? doesnt that suggest that maybe once he has a new girlfreind, like you, he wont be a comittment type of guy and will stray?

Answer #2

TIME WILL TELL HUN. YOU CAN´T MAKE HIM BREAK UP WITH HER. IF HE´S REALLY INTERESTED IN YOU THEN HE´LL LEAVE HER W/OUT you TELLING HIM TO DO IT!! AND THAT´S JUST A FACT.

Answer #3

If he had liked you, or well been in love with you, he would’ve chosen you over the girlfriend. It seems he’s using you as a scapegoat from his currently annoying love life. You seem like someone he just goes to when he wants to screw around, it doesn’t seem serious to me at all. You need to get over a guy like that, he doesn’t sound like a good catch anyways. If he were with you, what’re the odds of him not cheatting or having ‘friends with benefits’ at the side? Hm, doesn’t that second part sound familiar?

Answer #4

Well it looks like your being played. Because by now I think they realized the ups and downs that he has with his girlfriends but he still keps the relationship going. If he licked you as much as you like him then he would have dumped the other girl by now, just because of how you discribe her. But on the other hand he is also Spending a lot of time wiht you, meaby he is also traying to figure out if you are a player or not.

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