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How Do I Give My GirlFriend A Really Pleasurble Fingering
Wow you had the right ideas but not everyone had it. So girls are different so try new and diffent things. Teasing is the best thing to do to build it up for her and then give her many orgasms. I will give you tips to make her not only orgasm but squirt. Tease her unroll you feel is right, then take cloths off certain areas and touch don't go straight for her clit or vagina. Get her to want it and maybe moaning just by the tease. The play with the clit like she likes get her body ready and wanting more. Continue to kiss her all over and I learned that if you play around with her after a massage it helps because stress will be releaced and he can enjoy much much more. Then after stimulating the clit finger with how many she wants don't just finger but wiggle your fingers around and then almost tickling the upper part that should feel like the roof or your mouth she will start to orgasm if she hadn't already... And the get he on top she may not line on top but she gets off faster because the positioning is hitting every girls spot no matter who. And guys if she is on her knees on top you can do the work like we should and she doesn't have to do anything... After all done if she didn't come or get off... SHE IS BROKEN and have fun with that... Remember it's not all about sex though love and friendship in a romantic relationship also helps everything... O FYI I'm only sixteen and giving hopeless guys help... Step your game up guys your making us look bad
Tease her a little by touching her outside her jeans, then her panties, THEN her skin. Focus on her clit more than her vagina- for the majority of women, it's more pleasurable to have the clit touched than it is to be penetrated. Not all women are like that, though, so try different things and ask her what she likes. You can do both at once, too, so try that!
Don't ask her like you're desperate or freaking out, though- just ask in a normal voice, or make it sexy by whispering in her ear.
When you're fingering her, don't forget to kiss her, run your hands through her hair, etc. occasionally.
If she doesn't have an orgasm the first few times, don't worry. It can take time for you two to learn what feels really good. Enjoy learning!
Some websites that might help: http://www.collegesexadvice.com/clit.shtml http://www.collegesexadvice.com/g-spot.shtml http://en.allexperts.com/q/Sex-Advice-Oral-2391/fingering-help.htm http://www.holisticwisdom.com/articlesexfingering.htm
mate all you got to remember is that sex and pleasuring a girl is not a race or a competition but here is my advice start off by giving the girl some luxury id suggest a massage or two and while your massaging you can start to tease her by letting your hands linger around her clit but moving away from that area towards something less enticing then after this start rubbing her clit gently with your left hand or right what ever suites you and start to progress harder and faster then insert if you can your two middle fingers and progress faster and harder and change speed and intensity according to her breathing and reactions
good luck and enjoy giving your girl a orgasm she will adore :P
p.s if your left hand/right gets tired of rubbing her clit then use the thumb on the hand that's fingering
I totally agree with Fresherthanairfreshner, im only 16 and got my first girlfried, I have tried most this stuff people are posting, and none of it made her have an mind blowing orgasm.
I was sleeping at hers one night upstairs, and she slept downstairs, around 5 in morning she came up and hopped into my bed, she wanted me to play with her so I started playing with her clit, then all of a sudden I thought id rub her clit with my penis, just to get her in mood, she said "thats really really nice carry on" so I did. after 3 minites of rubbing her she orgasmed for first time since I met her which is 5 months now, and then we did it again the next day.
This felt good for me aswell as her, her heavy breathing turned me on so much and my belend started to tingle :) it was awesome. try it good luck
I totally agree with Fresherthanairfreshner, im only 16 and got my first girlfried, I have tried most this stuff people are posting, and none of it made her have an mind blowing orgasm.
I was sleeping at hers one night upstairs, and she slept downstairs, around 5 in morning she came up and hopped into my bed, she wanted me to play with her so I started playing with her clit, then all of a sudden I thought id rub her clit with my penis, just to get her in mood, she said "thats really really nice carry on" so I did. after 3 minites of rubbing her she orgasmed for first time since I met her which is 5 months now, and then we did it again the next day.
This felt good for me aswell as her, her heavy breathing turned me on so much and my belend started to tingle :) it was awesome. try it
This is what I do and my girl friend loves it First I start with kissing then I slowerly run my hands down rubbing her on the outside of her trousers until I can feel some wetness then I slowerly undo the button and slowerly pull down the zip by doing this you are teasing her building it up... then I use my middle finger I put it in a tiny bit slowerly taking it in and out then after a while try and get most of your fingure in there and if you can try two fingers.. still doing it slowerly then bulding up a tiny bit of speed. if she is breathing heaverly you know your doing a great job
ok mate what you need to do is give her some luxury first id suggest to give her a full body massage aye :p then start rubbing her clit faster and abit more harder then as your doing that insert your fingers into her vag as many as you can fit and continue to rub her clit as you finger her if your hand thats rubbing starts to tire use your thumb on the other hand also ask her what else she likes and do that while fingering her good luck and enjoy her orgasm :D
looks above me good GOD. what a friggen W.H.o.re bag. newayz. DONT SLEEP WITH HER. unless you want to have her child, and den she'll die. :] but anyways. I think to pleasure her, you can go ahead and help her with some math homework, and if you want, throw some science in there. && then when you all finish, go ahead, pat eachother on the bakk, and then eat some cookies && milk. :]
Hello I was just reading this and I just got a girlfriend yesterday and its been months or maybe even a year since the last time I had sex and I'm not confident anymore at what I can and I forgot how to do it and this girl is a freak of nature but she's still sexy and I wanna know how to pleasure her so much she will beg me to keep doing it can you please help me out. Thanks
put your d!ck in her p*sy than wasting your time and hers!! just do what nature said we should do make the two sexual organs to meet than fingure her! if l was her l would say FCK me!!! than baby fingure me but if she wants to put her in the MOOD like mayb put yo face up in her neck and breath or kiss her. find somewhere cool, romantic mostly your bed room!! Good luck!!
Hard to say because not all girls are the same. Personally, I like it when the guy goes straight in and out. The only thing I can suggest is that you start off with whatever and when you hit the right spot, you WILL know for sure. And if you are worried that you aren't pleasing her enough, you need to talk to her, communication is good.
Start by kissing her and then playing around with clothes on the when you feel some damp start stroking her celt and adding pressure then as she gets wetter slowly put as many fingers in her vagina as the wants a slowly rub when you have found her g spot do small circles and enjoy the orgasm
what you want to do is with your left hand rub her clit and with your right put as many fingers as you can fit in and thrust I garentee she will like this and if she dont send her over to min;)
