How do I get over my girlfriend's sexual history?

Hi everybody,

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I have problems with her history. She wasn’t a virgin before we started dating, but I was. She lost her virginity at 14 to her boyfriend who treated her really poorly. Then, when she broke up with him, she went out with this guy that I hate and messed around with him (mutual oral only because he wanted to wait until marriage).

Anyways, I can’t get over her messing around with the second guy because:

  1. he’s a geek
  2. he puts on this “nice” act, and he really just wants to get in girl’s pants
  3. he’s now going out with a former crush of mine (who wouldn’t go out with me)

I knew this stuff when we first started dating, but figured that eventually I would get over it. I haven’t. I love this girl very much.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Answer #1

if you love her, that shouldnt matter but everyone knows that is does. so all I can tell you is that you need to talk to her about it. think on the positive side a little, maybe you two wouldnt be together if none of that stuff happened. and your #3 reason should so not be an issue a is she really a former crush cause you wouldnt even be concidering hating that guy for that if it wasnt “former”. but think about this, IF you do not end up together forever , you will have to get used to having girlfriends or a wife that has been with another man, and they will have to deal with the fact that you were with other women. bottom line is it sounds like you are insecure and you neef to talk to your sirlfriend ay-sap!

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