How do I get my wife to get interested in sex?

My wife has never had adequate interest in sex even before marriage. Whenever we tried she says it hurts and finds no pleasure, so she avoids it everytime. We have never had good sex in last 1 yr. I have tried every way of seduction too and tried to masturbate her. But nothing works. Is there any good advice or suggestions I need them desperately.

Answer #1

try something different try a different position, use lubricant maybe add a sex toy like a vibrator, or buy her one so she can use it and get more into it however, if shes not interested, shes not interetsted you can only do so much to try and change it but if she doesnt like to have sex, she doesnt like to have it

Answer #2

Firstly, I think she is not intrested because her hormones arnt so strong…

there are ways of stimulating a womans hormones… causing her to feel more lust than usual… I have found, whilst going to the gym, that girls that lead an active lifestyl and do lots of physical stuff… increases a womans sex drive… which in fact is so for us aswel…

there are also a few types of medication/stimulants and foods that do the same job…

as for the hurting part… lost of woman find it painfull in the beginning… but the more sex you have the less pain.. I think thew have to get use to it or sumthin not sure… but maby she is just not over that break-thru stage…

hope it helps

Answer #3

If it’s painful for her, then she needs to see a physician…it’s highly likely that there is something going on, that may be easily fixed. A tilted uterus is one thing that could cause pain during sex…there’s other things, too…just can’t think of them right this minute.

I’m sure she’s feeling guilt over her avoidance…time to just bite the bullet and find out what’s going on.

granny phrannie

Answer #4

if a gilr has not had sex much it hurts her untill it stretches out alittle so it takes 10 to 15 times befor they realy get into it. try oral on her finger her and dont put it all the way in at first. tell her it will get better sex is vary important in a marrage so she has to try. if you can get her to climax with oral or finger she wiil becom mor interested!

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